When Breanna and Sabrina were little, they were involved in pretty much everything available to them – soccer, cheerleading, swim team, piano, band, choir, gymnastics, book club, and dance. And I'm sure there were other things. Eventually, I had to start phasing out many of their activities bc I was just plain tired of living in the car, and I'm sure they were too.
Guess what. It's Sophie's turn. Only this time, I'm actually saying NO to things, and so far Sophie is handling that just fine. Still, her schedule is quite busy, which is something she's not used to. My Sophie has always been a homebody, and very content to be so. But recently, she's decided to add a few things to her daily routine besides snuggling up to her mom on the couch…
1. She tried out for the school's swing choir and made it! 🙂
1a. I said NO to piano lessons, bc although she SWORE to me that she'd practice faithfully and never complain about having to go to her lessons, I know this to be false. Experience is the best teacher, and I got plenty of experience last year when I had to drag her to Mrs. Nabel's house every Thursday night.
2. She is playing soccer for a second season, and moved from a recreational league to a little more challenging one…
2a. I said NO to gymnastics, bc the last time she was in gymnastics, she was angry that they expected her to learn a proper somersault instead of getting straight to the heart of why she joined in the first place: to learn a triple round-off backhandspring with a full-out 360 twist at the end. (Breanna, please don't shoot me for not using correct tumbling lingo.)
3. She joined the YMCA's volleyball team again…
(There she is, going for the ball in the background.)
3a. I said NO to cheerleading bc the last time she was in a tumbling class, she was furious that they wanted her to learn a proper somersault instead of getting straight to the heart of why she wanted to be a cheerleader in the first place: to do a quadruple round-off backhandspring while being thrown in the air by her team of bases and landing in an arabesque atop a 4-tiered pyramid. (Again, Breanna, wipe that look off your face.)
4. She joined band, opting to learn the clarinet…
4a. I said NO to orchestra bc I already owned a $1200 clarinet and didn't feel like coughing up twice that for a violin. Plus, I feel sorry for the poor horse that gets his tail hairs pulled just to string the instrument.
5. The reason her hair is in a crazy 'do in her clarinet photos is bc she tried out for the swim team and made it! She's been on the wait list to try out for over a year, and has been practicing as much as she can during that entire time, preparing herself for the one day she'd get a chance to make the team.
5a. I said NO to horseback riding lessons bc I didn't want her getting any more ideas about violin lessons.
Btw, Sophie is also in Student Council, which means she has to attend monthly meetings at school. Today she ran for the Student Council President, and had to give a speech in front of 81 students. If I was an eligible voter, I'd have most certainly voted YES for Sophie! (I did ask her if I could come watch her speech, to which she replied, "Well… umm… it's just that… you're a mom."
So that's what it feels like to be told NO. Okay, I can handle that – no biggie. But if she continues to tell me NO, I'll just tell her how much fun I used to have watching Breanna do those quintuple round-off backhandsprings with double-fulls, landing atop her base's shoulders just after doing an airborne Hercules, all the while playing her violin with a riding crop.
And then Breanna would have to hurry and get ready for piano lessons.)
